
| Location | Littlehampton |
| Age | 0 |
| Date of Birth | 12/2007 |
| Date of Death | 12/2007 |
| Visitors | 1,600 since 03/04/2008 |
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Skyla's Story...
At 20 weeks gestation me and Tom (Skyla's dad) went for our scan excited about finding out the
sex of our first baby, only to find that Skyla had a mild case of ventriculomegaly (spelt wrong I
expect), this scared us so much but there was worse to come. We were referred from worthing hospital
to Kings College in London (a place we were to visit weekly from then) on the second scan there the
ventriculomegaly had become less of a problem but a new much worse problem was found. Skyla had a
congenital diaphramatic hernia which is when the diaphram has a hole in it which allows the stomach,
lungs and liver into the chest. This was restricting the growth of her lungs. So the first thing we
had to find out was whether she had any abnormalites she didn't this was a relief and Jacque
Jani told us that if she had any abnormalities there would not any chance for her and they would not
be able to do anything about her lungs. This was difficult to hear but at least he was honest. We
could always rely on Jacque to be honest. He performed the mini op through me which involved putting
Skyla to sleep and inserting a balloon into her trachea so that the fluid her lungs produced could
not escape. This was to expand her lungs. Everything was improving and her chances were moving up
from 50%. We were so optimistic.
At 30 weeks gestation my midwife found too much protein in my urine and I went to Worthing hospital,
I had developed severe pre-eclampsia. Midwives and doctors tried to transfer me out saying they
didn't want me to deliver there because Skyla's balloon had not be removed and they
didn't have the facilities to deal with her cdhernia. But she was on the heart monitor her
heart rate decreased several times and this ment that I had to have an emergency c-section. We were
all scared our faith lied in Dr Jani. A consultant from Brighton was called over he was the one that
would puncture the balloon when she arrived. This was all a success and she was born on the 21/12/07
late evening and taken to the special care baby unit in Worthing whilst they tried to find somewhere
to transfer her to. They got hold of GOSH and a few hours later the team came and after bringing her
to see me she was taken to GOSH. Tom followed up on the first train in the morning, we needed
someone with her.
She was doing really well, opening her eyes for her daddy whilst he read the football scores to her
(determined that she would follow Chelsea lol) and the Tv paper to pass the time. He barely left her
side. Her operation was on Christmas eve to close the hole in her diaphram, during it she went into
cardiac arrest but she fought, me and Tom believe she wasn't ready to go yet she was waiting
for her mummy to get there, so the 3 of us could be together.
After the operation her condition was never stable, if the oxygen she needed went down, the drugs
she needed went up, the balance could not be found. But we still didn't even have in our minds
that she wouldn't make it after all she had been through. She then needed more drugs and
another line into her body. When this was done as her body was so small they punctured her lung. She
fought for 30 mins but she just couldnt hold on anymore, she died on the 28/12/07 She had fought
enough. Me and Tom spent hours saying goodbye and washing and bathing her. But then I knew it was
time to leave we had to go then we had to let her be in peace.
Christmas will never be the same for us or our family any more, it's now Skyla's time of
year we will think of her then more than we do everyday. From the words from her daddy's speech
"Good night, god bless" we will always love you angel xx
Please light a candle for Skyla and also if you can, donate to GOSHCC as we have them to thank for
her week of life and want to help them save more lives.
Thank you for taking the time to read Skyla's story
cdh mum too
Dear Jodie
I heard about your littel daughter through another cdh mum. I am so sorry you too know the pain that this devastating defect causes.My son Joel was born in April 2006 with a LCDH. Despite a very brave fight, he left us just 17 hours 48 minutes later. He has left a huge hole in our family. I am thinking about you lots
Lots of love Debbiexxxxxx
www.joelarchie.piczo.com
I too know your pain
Hi my angel was also born at 30wks with the same problem as Skyla but we didnt know through my prenancy as they missed it on all of my scans aswell as missing the fact that Taite only had one kidney which when he was born went into kidney failure! We count ourselves very lucky as we got to spend 14 days with our angel before we had to make the heart braking dissicion to take him off his machines and allow him to grow his wings. To me no amount of words will ever make me feel better from people who really have no idea on how I feel but to no I am a mommy as are you to a special angel that keeps me going! take care my thoughts are with you xxxxxxxxxxx marie xxxxxxxxx
Gift of a child
I’ll lend you for a little time
A child of mine, he said,
For you to love him while he lives
And mourn for when he’s gone.
It may be six or thirteen years,
Or twenty-two, or three,
But will you, till I call him back
Take care of him for me?
He’ll bring his charm to gladden you
And should his stay be brief,
You’ll have his lovely memories
As solace for your grief.
I cannot promise he will stay
Since all from earth return,
But there are lessons taught down there
I want this child to learn.
I’ve looked this wide world over
In search of teachers true
And from the throngs that crowd life’s lane
I’ve decided upon you.
Now will you give him all your love
Nor think the labour vain
And hate me when I come to call
To take him home again.
I fancy that I heard them say
‘Dear Lord thy will be done,
For all the joy, this child will bring
The risk of grief, we’ll run.
We’ll shelter him with tenderness
And love him while we may
And for the happiness we’ve known
Forever grateful stay.
And should the angels call for him
Much sooner than we planned,
We’ll brave the sadness that we feel
And try to understand.
dear jodie
im so sad. i really thought that one of our babies would make it from that day, that op at kings. im sorry i am wrong.
our stories are so similar- it's heartbreaking. i hope our lil angels are together up there, with all their organs in the right places! im sure they are. we will get to meet them again one day, till then, they are never far away
so much love to you
caroline xx
sorry
I'am so sorry to here about your daughter, christmas isnt the same for me anymore as that was the day my daughter was born, we sadly lost her in august after a long and painful sruggle. so my heart goes out to you both,be strong.
Twinkle twinke little star
now we know just where you are
keep on shining through the night
untill the darkness turns to light
when the night falls there you'll be
shining bright for all to see.
x x x x x sleep tight little angel x x x x x
special angel
god bless u for your loss of your daughter i know the pain u r going through i lost my granddaughter 4 yrs ago she was 3 wks old when god took her that morning such a perfect baby the pain is so strong in your heart i look at our daughter i c the pain in her eyes every day for the loss of her daughter our granddaughter my thoughts r with u both god bless u both
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